Pristine snow stretching through the distance, and the flutter of intricate flakes – today, a Canadian winter sounds inviting. 

Today, I woke to a thermometer that read 9 degrees celsius. No, not outside – the thermometer is at my bedside. 

I don’t forget Canada’s months of cold, the icy roads, and stir-crazy afternoons, nor do I forget sitting by the fire, sipping hot chocolate after an afternoon of skating, and the burn of cold against my cheeks while sledding downhill. I remember being cold outside, but warm inside. 

Here in China, it’s been below freezing this past week, with only a few flakes of snow. No fire to warm ourselves by, not even central heating. With concrete walls that soak in the warmth, and no insulation, space heaters take off the edge, but they don’t warm our home. All week I held the belief that today was the day the cold would go away. Today the sun would come. 

I’m covered from head to toe in wool, yet still my toes are cold and I’m wondering how I got out of bed. 

As I pause to warm my fingers, I look out the window, beyond myself, to buildings colder than ours. Our apartment is high, and south facing windows, unblocked, captured warmth from last week’s sun, carrying us through the first half of this cold.   

My mind stretches farther to people in village homes, that are cool on a warm day and frigid on a cold day – a friend, now moved away, lived in one such village. We were making winter plans. “Your place, or mine?” “Yours,” she said, no hesitation, “then we can be warm.” 

Her clan piled in and this home, now so cold, filled with jokes and laughter, stories and smiles.