I can be pretty hard on myself, set the bar so high that even when I do something well I reason it away, saying it’s not good enough. But ya know, I’ve made some good friends over past years, and not one of them treats me this way.
Would I want a friend who can’t acknowledge the good I do, who only belittles my efforts? The answer’s pretty obvious. Then why treat myself that way? But even if I recognize I want to act differently, it’s not easy to change a habit. In fact, I don’t know if I could without the support of good friends – the same ones I mentioned: the ones who listen.
So, after sharing my 100th post last week, I had a decision to make. Would I continue to act the way I have in the past, telling myself, “Sure, you’ve shared one-hundred posts, but you’re no Jane Austen.” The buckets of cold water come quickly. It’s easy to gloss over an accomplishment. Too easy. But when something is easy, it’s usually not the right path to take.
I think of my friends, and how hopeful I feel when they encourage me. Their support is giving me the strength to offer that same encouragement to myself.
So here goes – I pause to acknowledge I haven’t given up on my goal. It’s been hard work, but hey, if dreams were easy to attain, they wouldn’t be that exciting, would they? I’ve chiseled through rock to get where I am, creating new habits, awakening new realities. I’ve reached a landmark. I’ve posted my 100th post!
It’s more than that, though. I couldn’t have pressed on without support. Through the process, I’ve gained new depths of friendship. It’s a natural outflow of opening up, saying, “This is what I want to do but I’m afraid I can’t.” So as much as this post is a celebration, it’s a form of gratitude. Gratitude for friends who have listened when I’ve shared my fears, and cheered me on when I’ve faced them. Friends who are teaching me to cheer myself on.
Thank-you!
I’m glad you’ve decided to carry on with your blog. You have solid grounds for speaking positive thoughts to yourself so please do it much more often. ♥♥
Your comment makes me smile. Thanks Mom J:)
YAY, Charity!!!! That is cause for celebration, girl!!! 😊🎉 You’ve been one of those supportive sisters to me in my journey, and I pray you keep on pressing forward in yours, too. Let’s keep chiseling through rock with the help of the Solid Rock. And some seriously awesome friends. 😁
Pearl, it was your words that came to mind when I second guessed myself on celebrating. Thanks for your encouragement and yes, let’s keep on!
Hey!
Congratulations! In fact, with this post, you have exceeded the 100 mark!
Well done! And, yes, I know the struggle you face. Let’s learn together to be kind to ourselves.
Glad you’re in my life.
Kathryn, you were there when I was ready to give up. Thank-you and yes, let’s be kind to ourselves:)
Thanks for your honesty Charity, your writing is always interesting, I can relate, sometimes there are tears, Giggles, and your word pictures bring me into your world. You are very talented. Congratulations on your 100th post. That’s an accomplishment. Blessings, hugs & prayers.
Thank-you Sharon, for your kind words – now and through the past.
Belated congratulations on your 101st post! You’ve certainly been a source of encouragement to me, Charity. Keep up the good work!
As you have been to me, Melissa. Thank-you, friend.
Awe! Thanks!